Difficult Decisions

So in light of recent events Ive had to think about a lot of things. I may be over reacting or even be completely wrong about the whole thing, I do not want to rush to judgment or make assumptions because of whats at stake. So I used to be best friends with this person until I started finding out that he, as well as several other close friends, had essentially started to avoid me. I don't know why, it all started after he decided to join the national guard and I told him I didn't think it was a good idea. ever since then he has made less of an attempt to contact me for anything, as well he doesn't make much of an effort to answer my calls or return them. To make things even more frustrating the group of friends we all hung out with also do not answer when I try to call. The confusing part is they are still friendly and appear to be interested in what I have to say, and give me somewhat helpful advice. The getting married without bothering to tell the guy who thought you were best friends with, as well as having a baby and telling me im not allowed to see it because the hospital wont allow it...is kinda sounding like bullshit the more I go over it...Looking back I dont really see it being so much worth it anymore. We had fun in high school and times have changed. If they want to keep disrespecting me, then they are going to lose a good trustworthy friend...Im making arangments to meet new people, until now I wasnt sure how, but I believe I've found a way....I will be happy